I keep seeing wildly different numbers on towing range with an EV too, so here's my real-world data. I tow a boat with our EV9 at close to its max towing capacity. The weight doesn't matter too much, it's more how un-aerodynamic the thing you're towing is. A boat on a trailer is a big blunt shape pushing air, and that's what kills the range.
When I'm mostly on the interstate going 65, my range comes down to about 40% of max. If I'm towing off the interstate, on slower roads, I have probably 60% of my range.
So for anyone planning a trip with a trailer, I'd say the shape of what you're hauling and your speed matter way more than how heavy it is. Curious what others have seen, especially if you tow something that's low and flat vs tall and boxy. Does the weight vs aerodynamics thing match what you've found?